Bullying / Cyber Bullying & Negativity & How It Effects Us

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This blog this time is about online attacks and how it can effect not just one person but it can effect the ones who are emotionally and physically attached to the person being bullied too...

So what is bullying / cyber bullying :

Cyber bullying can be from any form of bullying which starts taking place online or on smartphones and tablets. Also mainly starts on websites which are for social media such as;
messaging apps, 
gaming sites 
And then others such as chat rooms such as Facebook, XBox Live, Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat. 

A massive 56% of youths have said that they themselves have seen others be bullied online with a massive 42% have felt unsafe online. 
The percentages are rising fast. It can start with one comment on something and within seconds it can go viral. 

What are types of bullying?: 

On social media it is easy to “joke” about something or say something in a joking way to someone but it can also be portrayed as being nasty abusive and giving out hate if it’s direct! In the case below I’m going to explain some types of bullying topics....

.Flaming – This is when someone is constantly and on purposely using extreme or offensive language and getting into online arguments and fight for no reason other then to cause trouble and get someone upset and distressed. They do this because they find the reaction an enjoyment. 

. Harassment - This is the act of sending offensive, nasty, hateful , critical comments to an individual or a group without stopping. 

.Impersonation – This is act is when a individual or group will hack into a person email address or social media account and use the person's online identity to send or post vicious or embarrassing material Around to others. The making up of fake profiles on social network sites, apps and online are common place and it can be really difficult to get them closed down. Unless you keep at the social network site to get it removed and even then it doesn’t get the treatment it should! 

Bullying is one of the biggest things on social media it can go from a laugh between friends to it going viral and becoming a bullying issue. 
It starts mainly from rumors and gossip. 
It starts off with for example one picture comment or a reply to a status or a tweet between two people to 4 people to 200 people before we know it when it’s shared it becomes a viral topic. And within seconds it can become world wide. 
You can tell a friend something in confidence and you could hace one fall out and they could tell one more person and before you know it’s a well spoken about topic from a gossip to a rumour. This is how it goes on social media too one like to one share to endless likes and shares and before you know it’s worldwide.

It’s a malicious circle! Before you bully someone on any social platform rememeber that your embarrassing them making them feel worthless and used. Would you like it if your child was part of this bullying situation..? Bully or victim either way it shouldn’t be a thing. 

Online cyber attacks have caused a massive amount in people taking there lives: 
The youngest victim became a suicide victim aged just 7 years old. 

Bullying needs to become a topic where safety comes first! 

Personally growing up i was a big part of being bullied. About my weight my appearance ( spots / teeth / hair) I wasn’t the thinnest of people the most good looking the guy with perfect teeth so I became part of a bullying topic. 
The name calling began “ brace face” “jaws” “fatty” “dot to dot” “spotty” “grease ball”
And these names will never ever leave me and will always effect me for the rest of my life without any confidence it ruins your portray on yourself. 

Bullying comes in many forms it’s not just social media based: 

The types of bullying can effect so many people in so many ways it’s not just for any hour it effects the people involved it effects them for the rest of there life and it needs to be stopped! 

In the last few weeks I’ve seen bullying and victimisation upon many platforms of social media and it’s been against people who I know and care about a lot. The stuff people have said has effected them in many ways and I hate seeing it as it makes me angry. It started because someone didn’t like two people were together so the bully sent messages to the people concerned with hate messages and abusive talk. Making fake accounts pursing to say horrible comments to them too! 

Hate crime needs to stop
Bullying needs to stop! 
It’s cruel it’s violating people’s personal life! 

If you see any hate crime or bullying online 
Report the group or individual to the social platform 
Or report the post too! 

I hope you don’t become a bully or part of hate crime 
Keep being you! 

Thank you for listening 

#StopBullying #StopHateCrime #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek 

@_Addz20

Comments

  1. Thinking about how much we are victims of bullying...makes me think that perhaps they haven't experienced it for themselves!

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